Monday, February 14, 2011

今天在百度看了有关佛的文章。

佛就是“觉者”,“一个觉悟的人”。

学佛的人不能不知道。‘佛教’是佛陀的教育

佛的慧语  (我本身比较喜欢的)

◆改变别人,不如先改变自己。   
◆拥有财富的人,不如拥有智慧的人。   
◆人很奇怪,不了解自己,却又每天想去干涉别人,弄得痛苦不堪。   
◆人之所以痛苦,在于追求错误的东西。   
◆有人的地方,就会有是非,把它看作很正常,你就不会难过,因为是——人嘛!   
◆犯错是平凡的,原谅才能超凡。   
◆伤人之语,如水覆地,难以挽回。   
◆不能把握现在,就无法获得永恒。   
◆遇到困难时不害怕,心中无事,是名真修。   
◆算命不如认命。   
◆恨别人,痛苦的却是自己。   
◆律己要严,待人要宽。   
◆怀着一颗感恩的心,忘记别人的缺点吧!   
◆征服世界,并不伟大,一个人能征服自己,才是世界上最伟大的人。   
◆平凡之人追求不平凡,智者则甘于平凡,却享受平凡。      
◆有志气的人发一次愿,终身坚持。没志气的人天天发愿,浮而不实。    
◆彻底的认识你自己,你就会认识佛。   
◆因小果大,莫以恶小而为之,莫以善小而不为。   
◆真正的布施,是把烦恼、忧虑、分别、执著,通通放下。   
◆扫地扫地扫心地,心地不扫空扫地。   
◆各有因缘莫羡人。   
◆肯低头的人,永远不会撞到矮门。   
◆烦恼比岁月更易催人颜老。   
◆常常使别人过快乐日子的人,自己也必定很快乐。   
◆量大福大。    
◆填得饱你的肚子,却填不满人心贪念。
◆过去,已成过去,它只是记忆的残影。   
◆世界上的每一个人都在追求快乐,但却没有人真正了解什么是快乐。   
◆学悟的孩子不变坏,学悟的老人不痴呆,学悟的少年永不败。   
◆真正的看破是提起,积极地为大众服务。   
◆诚恳可以感动人,谦虚可以说服人。   
◆犯了过错,造了罪业,别人知不知道并不重要,最重要的是自己知道。   
◆善于保护自己的,永远谦虚谈话。   
◆赞叹别人,要在大庭广众;责备人,必须在私下。   
◆有智慧的人,从周围取乐,没有智慧的人,希望别人给予快乐。   
◆有生必有死,人应惧生,不应惧死。无生即无死,究竟解脱。   
◆忍人所不能忍,行人所不能行。   
◆作事不怕不成,只怕无恒。   
◆凡有追求,必定有烦恼。   
◆学悟,就是要你认识自己,找到永恒的生命。   
◆有了智慧,自然能了解真理,能了解真理,生活自然快乐。   
◆健康,是真正的财富,不要糟蹋它。   

佛教的教主——释迦牟尼,他来到人间的第一句话就说:“天上天下,唯我独尊。”这里要请读者们注意的是:“唯我独尊”的“我”字,并不是单指的释迦牟尼本身,而是指的全体人类的每一个人。这句话的正确解释应该是:人在宇宙中是顶天立地的,每一个人都是自己的主宰,决定着自己的命运,而不必听命于任何人或任何超乎人的神。

from > http://baike.baidu.com/view/4696.htmf

Friday, February 11, 2011

不要为了钱的事而吵好吗?

真心地希望你们可以不要再时不时吵架。

你,我知道你一个人撑得很辛苦。我何况不是看的很痛心呢?辛苦你了,一直付出和牺牲。

你,我不知道你的脑袋在想什么?你为何每次无缘无故地骂她和发她脾气?身为一个男人,真可耻。你让我对天下的男人没有信心。婚姻没有长久的吗?我已慢慢的说服我自己不要讨厌你。也请你不要再让我找到理由不喜欢你啊!



不想再写了,因为我不想讨厌你。。。

I am really growing up

oh well, time passes fast. here I am, after my spm basically doing nothing at home.

Seeing my friends off to college and knowing what they want makes me anxious. Till now I have no idea what I want. ''Choose something you like and passionate about!'' Recently I kept doing research to find about my future course and career.

I typed ''how do I know what course is suitable for me'' or something like that. A fellow that had the same question on his or her mind wrote that and someone commented. Saying that is funny to ask Other people what is suitable for ourselves. ''NO one knows better than yourself.'' By then, I knew no one can tell me exactly what I wanted. When am I going to get the answers?? February now and the spm results will be out in March. I don't even know I will be able to collect the results myself a not due to a vacation trip.

Really hate the feeling of being lost. I admire those that have a dream since young and always planning what's best for their future. I am quite aimless now. This is the most important decision of my life yet I can spend time online and doing nothing. No wonder I am such a failure. Many websites offered career tests to give people like me guidance but after doing the tests, they want us to make payment.

Last night, my mum told me that I can only hang around not deciding on anything for another month. Well, not like I don't want to decide. Just that I can't Decide! by the way I don't want to simply make a decision too. Luckily I know clearly what I dislike, cutting down the other possibilities. Just considering the courses offered in business field is causing me migraine.

Even my sister is worrying for me. I always take things too lightly making it difficult for myself to decide now. During my high school life, I wasn't into my studies. Knowing the fact that the first term and the second term examinations will not affect my following year's class placing. I couldn't be bothered. Now I can feel it. Humans are funny. Don't you think so? They will only regret once they lost something and could n't get back in time. Sadly I am one of them.

A few days before my Spm ends, I thought I wouldn't be lazy anymore but ended up I wasted another precious month. Is there any medicine that can cure my illness? Here I am lost in the middle of the sea....