Kopitiam Random Thought

I really wanna tell my mum just now when we were in the kopitiam that I am curious with my future. But my mouth didnt open up in the end.

I wonder what am I going to do..

Seeing an Indian waiter seems to be kinda enjoying serving people coffee in the kopitiam makes me wonder....

Seeing ladies making noodles for living makes me wonder...

Seeing a pair of mother and daughter makes me wonder... having a daughter is a good idea to kill boredom? daughters are the ones that need to accompany mum when needed?

Days ago, I heard this from a DJ of a radio station. DJ B's wife just gave birth to a girl so DJ A asked DJ B,'' whats your feeling of having a daughter? You know that a guy will take her away from you in the future.'' DJ B replied,'' Dont talk about it ,''

The question now is 'what will happen if I am not around to accompany my mum'. She doesnt really have anyone that really stands by her. 

Many elderly raised their children in their own way... made them study hard... make sure the children find good jobs.. and then the children really have a good job... find their partner... have their own family... then they forget about their original family... forget about their parents... and leave the elderly sadly waiting for their returns on weekends and festivals so that everyone can reunite.

parents are wei da... till a point I dont understand whats the use of raising a children.. especially a child that doesnt care for his or her families. but of course, there are also lucky parents that have really good children that always care for them all the time. Those are the lucky ones... but this doesnt always happen...

So next question:  How are my future kids going to treat me when I am old ?

Mother

Sometimes I wonder how can I correct her .. who am I to correct her.

Most people often say their mums are the best in their heart.

To me, She isn't the best. She has alot of lackings. alott... yet she has alot of love for the family in ways that we wont agree.

I did Wrong.

Another mistake that I will never forget.

Must I always reach till I regret only realise that I need to do something ?

Humans are real funny creatures.

Deep

说，是一种能力；不说，是一种智慧。

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控制脾气

I wont let him bring me to eat in food court

My dad was suggesting that we can find more westernized food in Busan's Food Court as the usual traditional Korean food aren't edible -___________-

You scattered my heart... I am feeling stress for being you few around.. I know how tough it is to order in a typical Korean restaurant if we cant read Korean... but I am NOT eating the same food or Non-Korean Food in Busan everyday!  T__________T  and when this conversation occurred, my sis was around, she was so damn happy that she wasnt joining the Busan Trip. Shiett you :' ( 

Don't do this to me :(((

Wasting My Time

Almost a week now... I dont think I utilise my holidays properly...

I always have time for unimportant things first and piling the important ones..

Parents

What is the feeling of being parents?

They spend their whole life on their children...their children grow up... leave home to further studies/work without bothering much about how the old ones feel... and the old ones are left alone... waiting for the children to come back... 

hmmmm...